genderqueer fashionista

musings on fashion and identity from a genderqueer lady-gent sometimes tomboy, sometimes prettyboi, sometimes femme, often dapper person.
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dapper times two for my friend’s birthday at the park

romantic friend brunch plus more of the embroidered handkerchiefs from my beau

photos also by her

yowza, that nail polish with that outfit. yes. 

(via switchteams)

fancy friday made fancy by fem/me makeup and cute dog

fuckyeahtransfashion:

One must have that hint of color. 

boi in a dress.

photo/clutter by N.

Asker Anonymous Asks:
I absolutely love your spunky button downs! Where do you usually get them ? and are they typically from men's or women's section?
genderqueerfashionista genderqueerfashionista Said:

hi there and thanks! 

i wear a mix of button downs, some women’s and some men’s. 

men’s:

for men’s, i shop where gay boys shop or in thrift stores for little boys shirts, because i am on the smaller side up top. uniqlo, h&m, and jcrew all have men’s shirts that i can wear off the rack. i generally wear an extra-small in all of those brands. 

women’s:

women’s button downs oftentimes just fit way better, though. this one riffs off a very classic menswear style and the collar is actually wide enough to wear a tie. this is from uniqlo, but some of my other favorite shirts are from land’s end and brooks brothers (thrifted, so expensive retail!). 

hope this helps! xo NC

Asker Anonymous Asks:
hi, your blog is so wonderful! i'm just wondering: do you know what style the black shoes with the buckles that you reblogged recently are/what that type of shoe is called? they're lovely and i would love to get a similar pair but i'm not sure what to search for!
genderqueerfashionista genderqueerfashionista Said:

followers: can anyone help with this? i’ve been internetting my queer little fingers away and can’t figure this out. 

these shoes:

anyone? 

i once saw some like this (maybe for fall- wait a couple months) from bass, but not sure if my memory is leading me astray. 

update:


thanks to professorial, confirmed that these are called “monk shoes.” search away! 

nc: “what would you call this outfit?”

n: “frat bro formal.”

Asker Anonymous Asks:
What do you think of piercings ?
genderqueerfashionista genderqueerfashionista Said:

Don’t have any (other than ears) myself, but think they can look really cute on other people!